We can't tell you whether to leave. That comes down to your finances, your clients, your contracts and what you want your practice to look like. This post covers the practical side of finding clients on your own, so that if you do go, you go with a plan.

1. Own your own front door

On a platform, the platform owns the front door. People find it first, and it decides who they see. Working on your own, you need your own front door: a few places where someone looking for help can find you, get a sense of how you work, and get in touch.

You don't need much to start. Most of it comes down to three things.

A simple website. It can be modest. A good therapy website answers the questions someone has while deciding whether to contact you. Who do you help? How do you work? Where are you, and do you see people by telehealth? What does it cost, and do you take my insurance? How do I get started? If someone can find those answers in a minute or two and see how to reach you, the site is working. Our guide to what a therapist website costs sets out published prices for each route, from a builder you set up yourself to a custom build. (If you'd like help with this part, see our website design for therapists.)

A Google Business Profile. When someone searches "therapist near me" or "anxiety therapist in [your city]," Google often shows business listings next to the regular results. A free Google Business Profile lets you decide what shows up there: your practice name, hours, a link to your site, and how to contact you. A profile needs in-person contact with clients, so a telehealth-only practice doesn't qualify under Google's rules as written. If you see clients at home, read Google's guidelines on address visibility before you set it up, so you can keep your home address private. Our local SEO and Google Business Profile guide covers who can have a profile and how to set one up.

Psychology Today (or a similar directory). Plenty of people still begin their search on a therapist directory. A profile there costs money, but it's another way in, and it's where people go when they want to compare therapists. Write it the way you'd talk to someone on a first call: plainly, and specifically about who you help.

Some people now ask AI tools like ChatGPT to help them find a therapist. Nobody can promise what those tools will say. Still, if your website and listings say the same clear, accurate things about your practice, the tools have something reliable to draw on. There's more on that on our AI visibility page.

All three take time to start bringing in inquiries, so set them up while platform referrals are still coming in.

2. Moving existing clients and referrals, ethically

Before you tell any client you're leaving, or offer to keep seeing them outside the platform, do two things:

This isn't legal advice, and we're not lawyers. If something in your agreement is unclear, or a move you're considering might conflict with it, talk to an attorney who works with healthcare providers. Some liability insurers offer risk-management consultations to their policyholders, which can also help.

Whatever your agreement says, a few principles usually hold:

As for referral sources like colleagues, physicians and school counselors, a short note telling them how to reach you directly usually goes over well. People who've sent you clients before tend to want to know where you went.

3. Turning inquiries into first sessions

Once people can find you, the next job is answering them well. It's an easy place to lose people without noticing.

Response time. Reaching out to a therapist takes nerve, and some people contact several at once. A quick, warm reply can decide whether you get a first session or hear nothing back. It can be short: "Thanks for reaching out. I have openings on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and here's how to book a free 15-minute call." Choose a response window you can actually keep, such as one business day, and put it on your website so people know when to expect a reply.

A clear booking path. Decide what the first step is and make it easy to spot. A free phone consult, a contact form, or booking straight into your scheduling system? Whichever you pick, use the same one on your website, your Google Business Profile and your directory profile.

Fees and insurance info, up front. On a platform, clients may never have had to think about cost. Now they will. Say what you charge, whether you keep sliding-scale spots, and how insurance works with you: whether you're in-network with any plans, or whether you give superbills for out-of-network reimbursement. Also, under the federal No Surprises Act, providers usually have to give clients who aren't using insurance a Good Faith Estimate of costs when they schedule care in advance or ask for one (CMS: Medical bill rights1). Being straightforward about money is kind, and it also spares you consult calls with people who could never have afforded it.

Test your own process. Every few months, go through it as a stranger would. Search for your practice, read your site on your phone, and fill out your own contact form. Then check that the confirmation email went out and that the message landed in an inbox you actually read.

4. The emotional side of a shrinking caseload

A shrinking caseload is a money problem first. It can also turn into a confidence problem.

If part of how you judge your own competence is how full your schedule is, a thinner schedule can start to feel like a verdict on your work. If you catch yourself thinking you're not good enough, or that you should have seen this coming, you'd question that thought if a client said it in session. It deserves the same questions here.

A few things to try:

Where to start

If you're not sure how your website holds up (whether it explains who you help, makes the next step obvious, and gives search and AI tools clear information), our free website review is an easy place to begin. It's an automated check that takes about a minute and shows what's in place and what might need work. It doesn't measure search rankings, and it doesn't cover visual design, speed or accessibility.

When you're ready to build or refresh your front door, we can help: websites for therapists and AI visibility.